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TheOrangeOrange
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What's up guys I need some advice about this girl meeting my family

I've been dating this girl for about 4 months hasn't met my family , I'm going to meet her family next week but my family isn't like hers

Me and my mum don't really get along and we haven't for acouple of years she just snaps shit at me for everything I do , I haven't spoken to my brother face to face in about 3 years and he lives in the room next to me , it's crazy I know , me and my dad are really close tho and that's about it

Her parents are divorced but my family situation is just **** up and I'm not too sure about introducing her to them , especially my brother because he's going to be a dick about it ( he's 23) and I don't want her thinking we're all **** up

Any advice on how to approach the situation would be great guys Thanks
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If she cares enough about you it wont matter, dont get anxious about it.

Just explain the situation and then she can handle it how she wants.

Best of luck mate
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Like Saxbyyy Said if she cares a lot about you it shouldn't matter I mean my family isn't exactly like your but close. My gf only met my dad and my brother cause my mom is kinda on the crazy side as well and I told her and she understands. And only do what is comfortable for you and your gf should understand.

Best of luck dude!
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Thanks for the replies guys I explained it all to her and she she said it's all cool and I'm gonna have to suck it up and see how it plays out
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Just be open man don't stress it just tell her like it is don't hide it if she is really feeling you she will understand. Personally if I were you I would just introduce her to my dad and then explain the situation about my brother and mother and then down the road I'm sure they will meet and hopefully then it will be less of a big deal and quite possibly you may have a better relationship with your brother and mother and it may be completely different.
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i wouldnt even introduce her to my mom and brother if we werent as close as you say, just let her know my dad.
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I was nervous when my girl met my parents because we grew up totally different. My parents drank and always had a good time while her parents didn't drink party nothing they were church goers and all about god. But my family loved her and she loved them now we've been together for 3 1/2 years!

I'm sure everything will workout fine just explain to her how it is and like some other people said if she is the one that shouldn't matter.

Goodluck man!
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If she cares a whole lot she won't care how they are, or if you don't want to introduce her to your family if they aren't the most pleasant people to be around then just introduce her to your dad since it sounds like you guys are the only ones who are close.
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Just explain your bros a dick your mum and you are distant but you are close with your dad she will understand man and it kinda gives her heads up.
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Lol, Who gives a f*ck what your fam is like, its all about you
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