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BigChungus wrote She should get the hell outta there, shes just allowing him to cheat.

Side note: I get vibes you like this girl yourself.
dude 100% on this I got the same vibe haah u like this girl dude ?
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LSA wrote
BigChungus wrote She should get the hell outta there, shes just allowing him to cheat.

Side note: I get vibes you like this girl yourself.
dude 100% on this I got the same vibe haah u like this girl dude ?



I've known this girl for a long time, so I actually care for her, that is all trying to do the right thing, because I see all this shit happening on the internet and meh, don't really wanna see it happen to a friend.


< or anyone in that matter >
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First off.

He is a womanizer, manipulator, and your "Friend" is caught in a conniving polyamorous relationship, with this man and his Baby-Mother. I'm no expert in the art of love; I will say neither of those women are respected as people but as property of his. If what you are saying is true, she is being "turned-out" and if she wants help she's not gonna get it until the abuse and toxicity becomes unbearable for her to be around. You talking to her isn't going to change things, whether she's physically going back and forth isn't going to change the matter my friend. You must try to change her perspective. Her going back to him after the sex-tape just shows that she has little to no self-esteem or self-respect shall I say.

If you want to help, get her away from them. If those children aren't hers, she is not obligated nor responsible for anyone but herself. It sounds like a personal Hell because she may have nowhere else to turn. Try to help her seek out other resources if your that emotionaly invested. Best of luck to you, Pal.
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Seems like a really, really shitty situation she needs to get herself out of.
Since it's only been a few weeks, it's inportant to do so sooner rather than later.
Hopefully your friend comes to terms with what is better for her mental health in the long run.
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Maze wrote Seems like a really, really shitty situation she needs to get herself out of.
Since it's only been a few weeks, it's inportant to do so sooner rather than later.
Hopefully your friend comes to terms with what is better for her mental health in the long run.


He no-doubt is training her for the "role" which is actually a Roller Coaster and it's an uphill battle for those trying to reach her. Probably convincing her that she's filling some sort of shoes. He has mental leverage over her, no doubt her food & board in exchange to be his sex-slave for either his entertainment or both his Baby Mother's & his entertainment. He's on cloud 9, and the more she becomes content with her situation the more she'll be damaged by it. I agree a 100% with your response.
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He's exhibiting a lot of narcissistic behavior, it seems like the guy wants the best of both worlds and you're absolutely right, your friend needs to get as far away from him as possible. He's also gas-lighting her by making her think that she's done something wrong - the guy sounds like a complete sociopath and it's a wonder how anyone would want to be around him, let alone have a child with him. She sounds like a wonderful person, but I've been in a similar situation and had to learn the hard way that you can't save everyone. Whilst that may not be the case here, watch out for yourself first and foremost; but it definitely sounds like you need to convey some of what you're feeling to this gal.
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Sounds like a Psycho like my Ex Gf think its time to dip
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I want to thank everyone for their opinion, I feel this helps me help her, because the more people that understand and support, I might be able to just convince her for the sake of her health


so Thank you, I'm actually so grateful for all of you <3 and I know I don't EVER make posts like this, but I thought it would be a good idea because I know all of you guys help
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Chat wrote I want to thank everyone for their opinion, I feel this helps me help her, because the more people that understand and support, I might be able to just convince her for the sake of her health


so Thank you, I'm actually so grateful for all of you <3 and I know I don't EVER make posts like this, but I thought it would be a good idea because I know all of you guys help


glad you came to a decision. good luck!!!
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Straight up with you... your a man and he's a man. You know what he's doing, now idk if you "like like" your friend but even if you don't you should stand up for her because it sounds like if she stands up for herself then he will do something to her. If u get ur ass kicked fine but I think you have to say something to the dude.
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