RantI'm stumped on her.
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So I'm 18 and there's this girl who's a year younger then me and I know I shouldn't be ranting about it at all but I can't help it.
I can't get my attention off her, not since I've been 15. 3 years on the same girl and not able to move on is killing me but it will kill me to see her hurt. We're not dating and she's had 3 boyfriends between the 3 years but we've been so close forever since I moved to the city she lives in. My good buddy hooked us up and I love her, but my heart can't take this damage. Has she gets older I realize she's changing, her attitude towards me and everything. I'm not the richest guy around but I buy her stuff when I can. It's to the point I have to let her go but the second I see her I just can't. Help me please. |
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I know what most people on here will tell you, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
But I know where your coming from, you can try to talk it out with her and tell her how you feel. I know it must be tough and it hurts deep down inside to let the one you love go. If you think she is changing into someone who you don't feel you connect with make it known and don't bottle your feelings or else you will be the one who gets hurt in the end. Trust me, tell her how you feel and it will relieve you so much and maybe she will listen and change for you. |
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| You're young man, give it your all and try to make her yours. Tell her how you feel. Don't focus on other people, definitely don't focus on your money, be a good man and show her you truly love you as much as you say. |
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| Sometimes moving on from what makes you isnt the best thing. Give in to your heart and what you want. If she feels the same way why give up? Love her no matter what. If your feelings are as real as you claim. :/ |
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| Sounds like you are rite in the friendzone i think the best thing to do would be to talk/tell her how you really feel, hope all goes well! |
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| You are young, you have so much time. Your first big crush you will always remember trust me. I still remember mine but I wouldn't have those kind of feelings for her ever again. For me life is about progression and moving forward and going on to do better things, you will find someone better because there is always someone out there. Focus on what you need to do, such as school or work or sports or whatever YOU are doing and it will happen, don't chase anyone. |
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| You have plenty of time to find another relationship or maybe kindle this one down the road sometime. Honestly your really young and I wouldn't get all worked up over a women. |
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| Sounds like you got friendzoned |
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| Just need to move on Man your not buying her love by buying her gifts and shit.There will be someone that will be better than her in every way I promise.Its pointless to be stuck on one girl and waste all that time for one person that doesnt reciprocate it. |
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| I was the same bud, waited for someone for like 2 years and then we was together for 2 years, engaged, a child together & things just wasn't working anymore. We did split up but we still remain friends & have both moved on now, if things are bad either take some time to yourself or tell her really what's on your mind and it might help things, as she will just think your okay inside. Someone should love you for you, not for anything else, certainly not money. |
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