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Admit whatever you done wrong, realise that you are not the sole reason for every single arguement, focus on your worth. DO NOT, think in any way that she was too good for you as thinking that only makes it true. know your worth, know what you did right and what you did wrong, tell her what you want and hear what she wants and no matter what way it goes you will know you done all you could and count it as a lesson.

there is no get over it quick option or make it easier option, admit the good and the bad, take it how it is and time will heal. Don't have any regrets!

goodluck
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Lounge wrote
Vial wrote Just go out drinking with mates and enjoy yourself thats what worked for me.if shes back on tinder already she obviously doesnt care and shows the type of person she is imo.


Yeah but im on tinder too. I only swipe when im very bored and havent spoke to anyone. This could be the case with her too, Girls are so confusing lol. Her friends might of told her to get it as she wasnt like that.
Girls are very confusing bro lol If it was me Id just cut contact you might meet a girl on a night out with your mates and it could change everything trust me it wont last.You're single now so you can play the field again.
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Vial wrote
Lounge wrote
Vial wrote Just go out drinking with mates and enjoy yourself thats what worked for me.if shes back on tinder already she obviously doesnt care and shows the type of person she is imo.


Yeah but im on tinder too. I only swipe when im very bored and havent spoke to anyone. This could be the case with her too, Girls are so confusing lol. Her friends might of told her to get it as she wasnt like that.
Girls are very confusing bro lol If it was me Id just cut contact you might meet a girl on a night out with your mates and it could change everything trust me it wont last.You're single now so you can play the field again.


Yeah i know bro, You probably are right but its going to be hard for me to move on. I understand it would take time but it really annoyed me seeing her block me after spending 2 years together.
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contact will not help at all, distance yourself and move on
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Update: Woke up this morning to realise i had been removed from the spotify we shared. Might mean nothing but i feel like that was all i had left if that makes sense.
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Update: Today i tried messagin her on skype, Says she hasnt been active for days but its getting worse. Its not getting any better and the longer it goes the harder it gets. I dont know how long i can cope and as much as i try move on it doesnt work.
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You ain't gonna get over it with constant updates here and worrying about it, like buddy, just go outside and find a hobby you like doing and just do it.

The only reason you think this is getting worse is because you are just sitting there doing nothing to counteract it.

It's a shitty situation but you're 22, go and have some fun. It ain't the end of the world!!!
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Try tinder and meet other people lol
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Honestly from past experience all I can tell you is it takes time.

I find just being single for while after a breakup is the best thing for you.

If you rush into another relationship after just getting out of one that's when things tend to cause problems with the new relationships because your not fully over your ex.
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0livia wrote Honestly from past experience all I can tell you is it takes time.

I find just being single for while after a breakup is the best thing for you.

If you rush into another relationship after just getting out of one that's when things tend to cause problems with the new relationships because your not fully over your ex.


1000% agree with that! Definitely don't just rush into things! Take time for yourself! Make sure you're happy before you get into a relationship
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