#11. Posted:
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Sometimes we get nervous to make big decisions in our lives because we don't know where they take us. In times like this we have to trust ourselves and believe everything is going to work out for the best.
When we follow our hearts, we allow space for us to grow more as an individual, and now you will have the opportunity to grow WITH your partner, in a new space you created for yourselves. Love & light |
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It sounds pathetic and I'm 25 but I'm going to miss my home comforts like it's worrying me! I know I need to man the F up! But like just having my mum there etc etc we are so close and stuff and like I don't know little things, my dog? I bought it myself I paid but for the family, like I didn't buy it FOR ME, I paid it for the family
I don't know it's all little "pathetic " things if you will that are making me so on edge about leaving and I'm questioning a lot will I like it? What if I get scared? Not about owt serious just I don't know man! I over think so much!!! |
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| I don't think you sound pathetic. It sounds more like you are looking for any excuse to not want to do it because you are letting your own fears and insecurities dictate your thoughts and emotions about a new experience. It is quite normal but, you are always in control of your thoughts and feelings. To be honest you really have nothing to lose, you go to live with your girl you try it out and who knows it could be the best thing that ever happened to you and in your relationship. Or worst case it doesn't work out and you can still always go back home. Your mom will always be there for you, and you can visit her whenever you please. To be even more honest I think you should open up to your girlfriend about everything.. having open communication about your own fears and insecurities could probably help you more than you know because she more than likely knows you better than anyone else.. and who knows maybe she feels the same. |
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| You will be good homie I have faith in ya |
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