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I made a post on TTG 3 months ago, It was about getting over my ex. I got blocked but 3 days ago i got unblocked and she liked one of my instagram posts which i was suprised about. I followed her on my main account and she followed back very quickly, We started speaking but she was just arguing with me the whole time while i was trying to explain stuff and be nice. She then unfollowed me last night, Now im so confused and dont understand why she would go through the effort of liking my video, following me just to argue?

Ive been dealing with very bad mental health recently too due too everything going on in my life and since she has done this its been worse. Has anyone went through the same situation and can give some advice?

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Ima keep it 100 with you man. She's probably just doing it for some attention or to play with you man. I know from first hand experience. Your best bet is just to block her and move on. I know its hard but in the long run you'll see how much of a difference it makes
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The reason someone blocks you is because they don't want to see your content or because they don't want to talk again.

If it's because she doesn't want to see your content, she doesn't want to see you happy.

If she doesn't want to talk again then unlocks you it's more than likely she saw you were happy and now wants attention. As for the arguing thing, run man.
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In my opinion is better you block her and move on if you tried to explain and she didnt listen thats her lost bro im sure your young i mean we all young adults theres more to life then sticking to one person if you not happy, explore life bro go for hikes go for drives go for walks clear your mind youlll be alright bro dont go back again if you she will keep playing games hope everything gets better !
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If she does it again just tell her you won't communicate unless it's in person, to avoid arguing over the phone or whatever. Also, if she's like that, you should just keep her blocked and move on. Try finding something that takes your mind off of things, a new hobby. Working out is one that helps a lot of people deal with things like this. Just to put your mind somewhere else and be excited when you see improvements within yourself.
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Be careful starting up communication with a EX after being blocked or blocking them. Usually can go bad, best of luck my friend and make sure you're happy! Kind regards!
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We spoke again today, She was telling me to work on myself but i asked her 'Have you moved on' To which i didnt get an answer. I cant understand why she would unblock me and like a video, Only thing i can think of is she still has feelings and is testing the waters.
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Seems like she's playing with your emotions man. It hurts I know I've been there but just move on from her and don't let her back into your life. From what you're saying she seems very toxic.
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Lounge wrote We spoke again today, She was telling me to work on myself but i asked her 'Have you moved on' To which i didnt get an answer. I cant understand why she would unblock me and like a video, Only thing i can think of is she still has feelings and is testing the waters.


Seems Iike shes trying to make you feel like shit when she's insecure herself. Not trying to cause arguements. But she has no place to tell you to improve when she's more concerned about how you are than she is. We're all going through a rough time at the moment but for her to feel the need to rip you apart is harsh.
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Lounge wrote We spoke again today, She was telling me to work on myself but i asked her 'Have you moved on' To which i didnt get an answer. I cant understand why she would unblock me and like a video, Only thing i can think of is she still has feelings and is testing the waters.


Seems Iike shes trying to make you feel like shit when she's insecure herself. Not trying to cause arguements. But she has no place to tell you to improve when she's more concerned about how you are than she is. We're all going through a rough time at the moment but for her to feel the need to rip you apart is harsh.


Thats what it looks like, Its draining but of course i still care so i dont want to block. I was still upset before she unblocked me but now i wish she just kept me blocked.
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