Stealths:
Cipher (i've used this alot, i've personally been unbanned for a year has good support in their discord aswell if you need help, has no kv mode aswell
also it has a gta 4/5 menu (gta 5 multiplayer on 360 is shutdown)

Teapot (has a 7 day trial for new users, existed since 2014, lots of people been unbanned for years, personally had no issues and has good support they also have a free version called teapot core which doesnt include cheats just requires a unbanned kv, also if your a paid user and your kv was banned you could use no kv mode
it also has a onhost menu for mw2 and cod ghosts)

xbGuard (used a bit had no issues, has good support, my kv on it is nearly unbanned for a year, also has a litemode/free version which just requires a unbanned kv, they dont have a offhost at the moment but its coming soon has no kv mode aswell and has a menu library)

xbOnline (im not sure if you can still get lifetime, lots of people use it , its quite trusted, i think it has a 7 day trial for new users who never used it before)

Tethered Live (its alright, support doesn't really exist unfortunately (though some people do help in the discord) but they have a litemode/free version which just requires a unbanned kv, one of my kv is 100+ days though theres people unbanned for some years havent had any issues, it also has no kv mode and has a menu library)

if you have a unbanned kv stick to one server cause server switching on the same kv may cause it to get banned quicker, would recommend u make a new account on xbox website instead of using your main (you can use your main but would recommend a new account if your hosting instead)

Menus:
Multi Cod: (means works for all cods)
MatrixMods, good for trickshotting has lots of options, doesnt get updates anymore, theres a unauthed version around which is free, works on mw2/mw3/bo1/cod4/waw/advanced warfare/ghosts)
Downloads/id=237820/matrixmods.html

Myten v1.3 (paid, works for nearly all cods and has quite alot of options and works for other games that arent cod and gets updates, search myten rgh on youtube)

Cod 4:
Ghost Patch Legacy
mediafire.com/file/739739j6okdcfn...y.rar/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/67e52d07b...?nocache=1
Inspiration V1
Flying Turnip (Good for giving a infectable mod menu to people)

MW2:
Medaka
mediafire.com/file/s0su0b8lzgii4v...u.rar/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/f4e757dc2...168d6a4fb8
Bluesky
mediafire.com/file/t1d8xfv31zwse7...9.rar/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/af96388cb...15609ae18e
iKonori V5
Downloads/id=170189/mw2-tu9-ikonr...fixed.html

MW3:
Medaka
mediafire.com/file/drn9tugj9kt813...3.rar/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/cfac40f99...fd79174d0c
matrix/myten is prob better to use though

World At War
Summerbass v2 (has a infectable mod menu which you can give to people)
mediafire.com/file/y16injnmlp5cih...2.rar/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/cb068763a...ac088487ef
Purple kush v4 (these are both multiplayer menus which are good)
mediafire.com/file/d27kw2s5hi7hme...4.rar/file
Elasticity (good zombies menu)
mediafire.com/file/gcz9393xj08g1p...6.zip/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/0783f5e97...3d25b170df
Project x 2.0 (zombies)
Downloads/id=35898/waw-project-x-...-menu.html

Ghosts:
Medaka
mediafire.com/file/8ky4p7mq6y74w6...s.rar/file
virustotal.com/gui/file/a8bc75fae...313bf3511a
Or Myten/Matrix

Advanced Warfare:
Matrix

Note: if the menu is a xex and not a file e.g matrixmods.xex you need to set it as a plugin, but for e.g ikonori v5/elasticity you would put the files in the game folder