Tasty wrote I agree with all of the following posts pretty much. In relationships I feel like you have to do things for your S/O that you may not do naturally or enjoy doing. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices to accommodate them. It shouldn't just be you having to show more affection. Perhaps if you communicated with her about all of this, she could work on being better about it too. I had an ex gf that constantly needed attention, and in the end I wasn't able to do that for her, so I can relate to you in a way. It's clear that you love her a lot, and I'm confident you'll get things to work out.

Best of luck man! Hope the move goes well.