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Anyone have any good advice for leaving a girlfriend that is making self harm threats and such? I have been with this girl for roughly 6 months and i'm ready to call it quits and i have tried to break it off like 4-6 times in the past and she always brings up self harm and kinda forces me into the relationship in a emotional blackmailing pattern and it truly sucks i wanna move on and not hurt her at the same time but i highly doubt that is possible.

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dont let her black mail you and let her make your life a misery, tell her how it is, and explain your differences
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break it off with her and if she self harms then its her problem

you shouldn't stay if your not happy
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If she's really like that there's honestly going the same way she'll cut just don't be a dick when you let her done
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GermanLobbies wrote dont let her black mail you and let her make your life a misery, tell her how it is, and explain your differences


I tried so many times man and she constantly takes it back to self harm im debating getting her mom involved but not sure that's a great idea.
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DYEL wrote
GermanLobbies wrote dont let her black mail you and let her make your life a misery, tell her how it is, and explain your differences


I tried so many times man and she constantly takes it back to self harm im debating getting her mom involved but not sure that's a great idea.

Is she close with her parents or does she hate them?
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getting her mom involved, its your life, not her moms hahahah
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I would suggest that you do not handle this on your own then. If she is forcing you to stay in the relationship or else she will self-hard herself then get help from her parents or friends and if you do break up with her still spend time with her to make sure she seems fine.
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urBeats wrote break it off with her and if she self harms then its her problem

you shouldn't stay if your not happy


That's what i wanna do but i'd feel horrible if she did anything because i truly care about her but i don't think we are compatiable anymore.
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Aren't you the guy that posted a while back about cheating on her and you got mad at her when she found out or am I thinking off a different person? My bad if I am.

Back OT: She could just be doing that for attention and wont actually do anything like that to herself but unfortunately you just gotta tell her how it is and move on
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