So this girl I've been talking to for a couple of weeks just "dumped" me. I asked if she wanted to hangout after she finished her shift at work. The first few words of the text she sent said "I'd rather not" and when I saw this I was thinking, she's probably busy or had something else planned. But when I opened it, my heart literally sank and I didn't know how to feel. Her message described comments I've made about her which were true (not trying to go into too much depth, but you can private message me for the full details if you'd like). She then concluded that "I've had enough of my judgmental negativity, bye."

I looked at her message for a solid 10 minutes, reflecting on the moments in which I did say such things, but my reasons as to why were because I liked her for the said comments I made. I didn't really think to heavily on the effect my words had to her because of our type of relationship. I did respond to the message starting with Sorry, I was thinking of just saying Sorry and trying to move on but I had to say why I was sorry.

A few days prior to this, we'd rarely exchange messages or any form of social media like snapchat. We'd snapchat back and forth throughout the days. And then she returned my hoodie I let her wear when it was cold out this one night. She said she felt weird holding on to it. When she returned it, I was thinking "we're still good". But then I also thought maybe she returned it because she wasn't interested in me anymore.

The comments she mentioned were " not wearing enough makeup, not having her hair done, and wearing yoga pants " I admit that i'll make these comments from time to time, in a friendly-joking like tone, I never knew that she felt differently about them. We'd always poke fun at one another when we hung out.

My question for y'all is that if the comments I made were taken the wrong way from her end, shouldn't she have just told me that in person or something? And then I would've stopped saying them? And then we could like move on. Unless she just used that to cover up that she just wasn't into me anymore? Thanks for any input

tl;dr:
It's hard to read things when it comes to relationships. I guess its better not to read things at all.