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#21. Posted:
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Only time can heal a breakup. Of course, you'll need something(s) to distract you from thinking about the girl but you can only give yourself time. If you put your mind to it, find some new things to do to keep yourself busy and continue to live your life without letting this event put you down, you'll be a new person once the heartbreak stage passes.

The human mind is intriguing because the first few days after a breakup, all you can think about is the person you broke up with; you'll keep all the photos, texts, and all the details you shared with that person. Once days go by, you'll start deleting any trace of the person in an effort to get rid of those thoughts; this works but obviously you can't permanently delete memories from your mind. Time keeps going, you distract yourself from the event and you begin to create new memories to push other memories deep down, where they don't hurt as much. The memories will stay, Jass, the point of all of it is to make those memories stop hurting and create new memories, don't stick to thinking about it because all you'll do is keep yourself from experiencing new things; there's lots of people out there, I'm sure that one day you'll find someone who you'll keep for the rest of your life but for now, focus on yourself and live your life without having to think about girls or relationships.
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maybe you should go out single for a couple months and be a man sluttt
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InfamousLewy wrote maybe you should go out single for a couple months and be a man sluttt
That won't work dude, that's just adding unnecessary body counts & if asked about by someone in the future, he'd be ashamed to say. I've thought about that before too ngl but i also came to realization that it's truly not the road you wanna go down.
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HOPE THIS HELPS BROTHER <3 CHIN UP MATEY

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You should focus on yourself now, make yourself a better person. Keep happy and make a good group of friends.
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Find something that relieves your stress going to Gym or something you'll enjoy than go out and meet so new people go out with friends you'll eventually find a new girl who will treat you right I been in your shoes just don't think about it and meet new people
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Motto: "If love is just a word then why does it hurt so much when you realize it isn't there" - Gaara
Motto: "If love is just a word then why does it hurt so much when you realize it isn't there" - Gaara
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Motto: "If love is just a word then why does it hurt so much when you realize it isn't there" - Gaara
usually kfc chicken will fix the wounds.
#28. Posted:
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She don't deserve you, plenty of girls in the world for every guy to have. Learn from it and move on is all you can do. Bitches ain't loyal.

Very relevant (disregard the video listen to the song)


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Hello Jason,

I can see many members have already given you such amazing advice and it's great to see a community care so much for its users.

Honestly take on board what each and every user has said, look after yourself and make yourself happy. It's time to close a chapter and open another. You may not meet a girl for awhile but you'll do things in this chapter which will strengthen you as a person and benefit you in years to come, it's all about lessons.

Keep your head high Jason, don't be down although we all know break ups are hard.

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every deals with breakups differently, talking to people helps some people, playing games helps others, just depends, hope you're ok, if you ever need to talk, i'm here man
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