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I have problems asking for money for things like services and stuff. I don't know why it's just uncomfortable asking someone to pay you X for Y. If that makes sense. Does anyone else feel that way kinda? I know money is the king of the world and we all need it to live but still when it comes down to saying "hey I need $___ for ____." It's just weird idk.

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It gets weird when I have to ask my roommate every single time to pay her share of the electrical bill and she gets salty about it...

But then I remember idgaf and move on with my day
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well im 23 I have grown out of the stage a long time ago about asking for money!
BUT im still nervous asking women on dates (multiple at a time) because sometimes they all say yes then i have to figure out a solution which sucks
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If someone has to pay there share for something you shouldn't feel nervous asking.
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I have crippling social anxiety. I have trouble saying or doing anything unless I have talked to them before or I have no plans on meeting them IRL. So yeah I have a hard time when it comes to stuff like this.
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Fletcher wrote well im 23 I have grown out of the stage a long time ago about asking for money!
BUT im still nervous asking women on dates (multiple at a time) because sometimes they all say yes then i have to figure out a solution which sucks
im 23 as well. Asking out girls is definitely the most neveracking question for me right now.
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yeah I get that way too. I think it is normal for people to feel this way
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That's why you make money

I do poop my pants tho when i ask
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I feel weird asking my fiance to a bill because I feel she shouldn't have to work. But I've got way too many bills for her to sit home and do nothing. I pay 90% of bills and she sometimes chips in for electric when it's high.

I hate asking her to help.
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If it's money i am owed then no however if its asking for a loan or just for money then yeah i don't like doing it.
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