No matter what anyone does there will always be some people that will never treat women as equal and vice versa. For instance I once helped a lady with a buggy carry it up some stairs the normal response is thank you (which was said), where as some People you hold a door open for them like you would for anyone no matter who they are and this women just looks at you and calls you a sexist pig, I mean I was always taught to be polite and respectful which this was and the double slandered is unreal , basically what I'm saying is your screwed if you try to help and you screwed if you don't help.

"modern" disrespect?

I don't think modern society is more disrespectful than it was been in the past. I feel like the way your phrasing implies that we as a society are disrespectful to women but I think you could argue that the vast majority of people are actually a lot more respectful then people have been in the past, especially the last 500 years or so, I think there has been a massive shift of respect towards women.

And then you have the "le nice guy fedora" bloke who thinks every time someone gets in an argument with a girl they are being disrespectful. The vast majority of guys are respectful but you only really see the bad shit on social media because it spreads and its not the norm. No one is gonna post how they had a good day with their boyfriend or girlfriend, no ones gonna share it, its not gonna travel on social media because its normal behavior.

these were amazing replies thank you all

I've seen teenage girls send nude pictures to their boyfriend (who they trust) and that boyfriend either shares them with others or posts them publicly on social media. (DO NOT tell me that this is the girls fault. I do agree that they should not be sending pictures at such a young age, but that doesn't make it okay to RUIN THEIR LIVES)

That's their fault. I'll say it every time.

They're ruining their own lives when they think it's actually okay to take nudes and then share them. What do you think is going to happen?

As for the topic in general, I don't see much disrespect towards women. Maybe that's just me.

Savitar wrote

I've seen teenage girls send nude pictures to their boyfriend (who they trust) and that boyfriend either shares them with others or posts them publicly on social media. (DO NOT tell me that this is the girls fault. I do agree that they should not be sending pictures at such a young age, but that doesn't make it okay to RUIN THEIR LIVES)

That's their fault. I'll say it every time.

They're ruining their own lives when they think it's actually okay to take nudes and then share them. What do you think is going to happen?

As for the topic in general, I don't see much disrespect towards women. Maybe that's just me.

What do I think is going to happen? Well, one would hope that the other person looks at it and just moves on and maybe deletes it later. Blaming the person who sent the photo seems a bit a like victim blaming. I mean, you can literally do it for anything else. Someone broke into your home? Well, what did you think was going to happen for owning one? You got assaulted for walking home at night? Well, what did you think was going to happen walking alone at night in a bad neighborhood? There are dangers for doing things and having things. If there is someone intentionally doing harm, why blame the victim? If you don't agree with the act itself, I got it, I don't like it either. It just seems messed up to blame someone due to them finding enjoyment in it and someone else ruining their life for it.

Yin wrote

Savitar wrote

I've seen teenage girls send nude pictures to their boyfriend (who they trust) and that boyfriend either shares them with others or posts them publicly on social media. (DO NOT tell me that this is the girls fault. I do agree that they should not be sending pictures at such a young age, but that doesn't make it okay to RUIN THEIR LIVES)

That's their fault. I'll say it every time.

They're ruining their own lives when they think it's actually okay to take nudes and then share them. What do you think is going to happen?

As for the topic in general, I don't see much disrespect towards women. Maybe that's just me.

What do I think is going to happen? Well, one would hope that the other person looks at it and just moves on and maybe deletes it later. Blaming the person who sent the photo seems a bit a like victim blaming. I mean, you can literally do it for anything else. Someone broke into your home? Well, what did you think was going to happen for owning one? You got assaulted for walking home at night? Well, what did you think was going to happen walking alone at night in a bad neighborhood? There are dangers for doing things and having things. If there is someone intentionally doing harm, why blame the victim? If you don't agree with the act itself, I got it, I don't like it either. It just seems messed up to blame someone due to them finding enjoyment in it and someone else ruining their life for it.

Apples to oranges.

If YOU took a photo, and YOU sent it then YOU are to blame for having it leak. Now that doesn't mean don't feel anything for the person that had it done to them it is a shitty thing to do and I don't condone it. It's not "victim" blaming though, you need to own up for your mistakes.

If YOU choose to drink and drive and get pulled over YOU are to blame.

If YOU hit someone with your car, YOU are to blame. (Unless someone runs out in front of you but you see the point)

If YOU are the one who took and sent the photo, YOU have blame in it being leaked. Not all obviously, but most. There would be no photo to leak if you didn't take it to begin with.

Comparing this to someone breaking into your house is asinine. Houses are designed to be lived in, not to be broken into. A revealing photo, however is almost always created to be sent to someone else. Someone malicious destroying your property and entering into your home while putting your entire families life at risk is not the same as some guy sending your photos to his friends (or even putting it up on the internet for everyone to see). Yes it's horrible and no I don't think it's just something to brush off, but if you set your self up for failure don't be surprised when you fail.

Saki wrote

Yin wrote

Savitar wrote

I've seen teenage girls send nude pictures to their boyfriend (who they trust) and that boyfriend either shares them with others or posts them publicly on social media. (DO NOT tell me that this is the girls fault. I do agree that they should not be sending pictures at such a young age, but that doesn't make it okay to RUIN THEIR LIVES)

That's their fault. I'll say it every time.

They're ruining their own lives when they think it's actually okay to take nudes and then share them. What do you think is going to happen?

As for the topic in general, I don't see much disrespect towards women. Maybe that's just me.

What do I think is going to happen? Well, one would hope that the other person looks at it and just moves on and maybe deletes it later. Blaming the person who sent the photo seems a bit a like victim blaming. I mean, you can literally do it for anything else. Someone broke into your home? Well, what did you think was going to happen for owning one? You got assaulted for walking home at night? Well, what did you think was going to happen walking alone at night in a bad neighborhood? There are dangers for doing things and having things. If there is someone intentionally doing harm, why blame the victim? If you don't agree with the act itself, I got it, I don't like it either. It just seems messed up to blame someone due to them finding enjoyment in it and someone else ruining their life for it.

Apples to oranges.

If YOU took a photo, and YOU sent it then YOU are to blame for having it leak. Now that doesn't mean don't feel anything for the person that had it done to them it is a shitty thing to do and I don't condone it. It's not "victim" blaming though, you need to own up for your mistakes.

If YOU choose to drink and drive and get pulled over YOU are to blame.

If YOU hit someone with your car, YOU are to blame. (Unless someone runs out in front of you but you see the point)

If YOU are the one who took and sent the photo, YOU have blame in it being leaked. Not all obviously, but most. There would be no photo to leak if you didn't take it to begin with.

Comparing this to someone breaking into your house is asinine. Houses are designed to be lived in, not to be broken into. A revealing photo, however is almost always created to be sent to someone else. Someone malicious destroying your property and entering into your home while putting your entire families life at risk is not the same as some guy sending your photos to his friends (or even putting it up on the internet for everyone to see). Yes it's horrible and no I don't think it's just something to brush off, but if you set your self up for failure don't be surprised when you fail.

No. Again, just blaming the victim. Should they be educated on the dangers? Of course, but they aren't to blame for it. Yea, if you drink and drive or hit someone with your vehicle, you are to blame. You are the one that went and caused harm. You know who won't be blamed? The company who made the vehicle or drink. They made the product as the person made the picture. It is up to the consumer or receiver to be responsible with it. I mean, without the vehicle or drink being made, you couldn't drink and drive or hit someone with the vehicle.

Vyntir wrote Why is disrespecting women completely okay now?

It's not.

This is coming from a 17 year old male, who has witnessed (and I'm sure you have too) the hatred towards women coming from other males.

I've also witnessed women treating men like shit. It happens. Just because some guys are assholes doesn't mean disrespecting women is okay.

If you go on any social media, it isn't hard to find a post (probably multiple) that is disrespectful towards all women or a certain woman.

I just went on Instagram, snapchat, and cuckbook and didn't see one post degrading or disrespecting women. Maybe it's the people you choose to hang out with? Even so, social media is by far the worst argument you can use because its full of morons anyway.

I've seen teenage girls send nude pictures to their boyfriend (who they trust) and that boyfriend either shares them with others or posts them publicly on social media. (DO NOT tell me that this is the girls fault. I do agree that they should not be sending pictures at such a young age, but that doesn't make it okay to RUIN THEIR LIVES)

First, it doesn't ruin their lives. However, it's a disgusting thing to do, and yes this does happen. That being said, girls do the same thing. If ANYONE shares a sexually explicit photo of someone else that was sent privately, it should be reported to the police as it's illegal, especially if the photo is of a minor.


I'm much more concerned about laws regarding domestic violence, rape, etc than some shit on social media, but hey, to each their own.

Yin wrote

Savitar wrote

I've seen teenage girls send nude pictures to their boyfriend (who they trust) and that boyfriend either shares them with others or posts them publicly on social media. (DO NOT tell me that this is the girls fault. I do agree that they should not be sending pictures at such a young age, but that doesn't make it okay to RUIN THEIR LIVES)

That's their fault. I'll say it every time.

They're ruining their own lives when they think it's actually okay to take nudes and then share them. What do you think is going to happen?

As for the topic in general, I don't see much disrespect towards women. Maybe that's just me.

What do I think is going to happen? Well, one would hope that the other person looks at it and just moves on and maybe deletes it later. Blaming the person who sent the photo seems a bit a like victim blaming. I mean, you can literally do it for anything else. Someone broke into your home? Well, what did you think was going to happen for owning one? You got assaulted for walking home at night? Well, what did you think was going to happen walking alone at night in a bad neighborhood? There are dangers for doing things and having things. If there is someone intentionally doing harm, why blame the victim? If you don't agree with the act itself, I got it, I don't like it either. It just seems messed up to blame someone due to them finding enjoyment in it and someone else ruining their life for it.

Enjoyment in sending nudes?

It's hardly the same thing when it comes to sending nudes. Getting assaulted when you come home, getting your house broken into, is not the same thing. One is the result of a persons actions, which they know could and probably will have consequences, and they do it anyways. The other, isn't the result of someone's actions, unless it's in some very odd scenario.

2D girls > 3d girls


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